By Amy Schwinge, MAOM
With the holidays upon us, a lot of attention is focused on helping less fortunate families and individuals. I think this truly is a worthy cause and should be a priority all year long.
This time of year reminds me of community outreach projects in which I was involved early in my career from adopt-a-family programs, angel trees, filling stockings for a local orphanage to taking gifts to senior homes. I have participated in and helped coordinate a variety of these activities for past employers. But, one incident stands out from the rest.
Honestly, I didn’t fully comprehend the true meaning of these activities until I helped deliver some of these items.
As part of my job responsibilities, I created and distributed a news release outlining some of the community outreach activities that a past employer was doing, including providing enough food for a month (with a traditional holiday meal) along with holiday gifts for more than 1,000 less fortunate families in the area, which was a massive undertaking.
A local TV station in Atlanta was interested in covering this story, but they wanted to go with an employee to deliver these items to humanize the segment. I coordinated this activity, and I also went along for the delivery.
On the way, another employee and I stopped to purchase some candy canes and other goodies to take along as well. Little did we know how important these candy canes would become.
I was shocked at the living conditions and just how little a single mom and her young son (I am guessing he was about five or six years old) had in their small apartment in a housing project in inner-city Atlanta. Someone had given the mom and son a tree for the holidays, but it was not decorated with any lights or ornaments. The little boy tore open the candy canes we brought and joyfully decorated the tree with the candy canes without any prompting.
After all the food and gifts were handed out and placed under the tree, the little boy brought a single flower to the employee who had nominated the family for this community outreach program.
She didn’t personally know this family; she received their name from her church as a family who could use some help. When this little boy gave the flower to my colleague, hugged her and thanked her for all the food and presents (again, without any prompting), there was not a dry eye in the home, including the reporter who was covering the story. All of this was captured in the TV story as well.
This experience humbled me and forever changed me. I now truly understand what it means when people say it is better to give than receive.
The holidays always remind me of this sweet little boy and his mom, and I wonder how they are now—years later. I hope both are doing okay.
I always try to participate in some type of community outreach activity each year, whether it is a food drive at my child’s school, a local toy drive or purchasing items for an angel tree. I try to give something back and make sure my older child is involved as well. I want my children to learn why it is better to give than receive.
Remember, when you have the opportunity to participate in a community outreach activity, there are people on the other end who really need your help!