By Amy Schwinge, MAOM
We all have dealt with someone who is extremely difficult to get along with, whether in a work setting or on a personal basis. It can be a nightmare dealing with some people, but how do you manage someone with a difficult personality?
I would venture to say most organizations have experienced some type of difficult personality in some way in the past, but how you choose to mitigate the issues associated with difficult people is the key in the resolution. Public Relations is not immune to these issues, either.
According to Psychology for Business, “Most organizations experience problems concerning employee relationships, whether peer-to-peer or manager-to-subordinate. These types of difficulties are often cross-generational…or simply based on divergent and difficult personality conflicts. Organizations that downplay or ignore these ‘undercurrents’ often find themselves with significant productivity, morale and even safety and security issues.”
All the research that I have ever read on employee morale shows that a happy employee is indeed a much more productive employee. So, it is imperative that an organization keep its best assets content, and it will improve the bottom line as well.
Working with and managing a difficult personality starts with the basics: communication, communication, and did I say communication? The issues associated with a difficult personality must be addressed in a professional setting with all involved. Face-to-face meetings seem to work better, from my experience.
It is critical that you learn how to deal with conflict since it is a part of everyday life. Just think how boring life would be without conflict. Learning how to manage conflict instead of avoiding it is the key in diffusing a difficult personality and situation in the workplace.
According to HelpGuide.org, “Conflict is a normal and necessary part of healthy relationships…When conflict is mismanaged, it can harm the relationship. But when handled in a respectful and positive way, conflict provides an opportunity for growth, ultimately strengthening the bond between two people. By learning the skills you need for successful conflict resolution, you can face disagreements with confidence and keep your personal and professional relationships strong and growing.”
Visit HelpGuide.org for several conflict resolution tips and an outline of Conflict 101.


